Stories

Friendship, up close.

Every story below is a composite, drawn from the experiences of our companions and neighbors. Names and details are changed, and images are illustrative.

Imani laughing with Rosendo on his porch
Front Porch Visits

Rosendo and Imani

Rosendo, 79, retired from a Kodak Park machine shop. Imani, 24, studies nursing at MCC. Thursdays after class, they play dominoes. “I do not talk to her about my knees,” he says. “I talk to her about baseball.”

He taught me to play dominoes. I taught him to video call his sister in Ponce.Imani, volunteer
Two Deaf friends signing at a cafe
Hands & Voices

Walter and Mei

Walter, 72, is Deaf and had spent a lonely year after his wife’s death and his friends’ moves south. Mei, 48, is a Deaf software tester who grew up in the Rochester Deaf community. They meet Tuesday mornings for coffee, signing about the Bills, the news and their grandchildren.

I did not know how much I missed talking until someone talked back, in my language.Walter
Hodan and Daniel walking among lilacs at Highland Park
Bridge Buddies

Hodan and Daniel

Hodan, 16, arrived from a refugee camp in Kenya two years ago and wanted to practice English somewhere other than school. Daniel, 52, uses a wheelchair and knows every path in Highland Park. Together they have photographed all of Rochester’s lilacs, and argued about which is best.

He is my friend first. The wheelchair is just how he gets around.Hodan
An elderly Asian woman on a video call at her kitchen table
Hello Calls

Mrs. Lim

Mrs. Lim, 84, lives alone in Greece and speaks Mandarin and Cantonese. Her grandchildren are in California. A volunteer from Hello Calls set up a tablet in October. Now there are calls every Monday, a Mandarin-speaking caller on Fridays, and tea every time.

Now Sunday is not the longest day.Mrs. Lim
A young man with Down syndrome and his friend laughing at the library
Youth Connect

Mateo and Jordan

Mateo, 22, has Down syndrome and loves graphic novels. His weekends were empty until he met Jordan, a 20-year-old student at RIT. Saturdays are for the library, the comic shop and a long debate about superheroes.

We are just two guys who like the same things.Jordan

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